What is the difference between waiting and stalling? How do I know if I am accumulating heat or just avoiding?

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The distinction between waiting (purposeful pausing) and stalling (avoidance) lies in the direction of your attention during the silence. The Difference: Re-centering vs. Refusal When you pause to wait, you are creating a deliberate gap where choice and wisdom can live. When you stall, you are letting the momentum of fear or pressure dictate your inaction. Waiting (Reflection): This is an active, generative state. It is the practice of stepping back to ask: "Is this addressing the real…

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