Chant of the Remedy
Parent: Chants
When something has gone wrong, or might, and the mind starts to circle.
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The Chant #
If there is a fix, then fix it.
If there is none, set it down.
Either way,
the worry does no work.
The Practice #
This chant comes from an eighth-century Buddhist poem, Shantideva's Bodhicaryavatara, the Way of the Bodhisattva. In its chapter on patience, he asks why anyone should be dejected about a situation. If there is a remedy, there is no need for dejection. If there is no remedy, dejection does no good.
It is a very short argument and it does not dismiss the problem. It divides it. Some things can be fixed, and the energy spent dreading them would be better spent fixing them. Some things cannot be fixed, and the energy spent dreading them is spent on nothing.
Say it when a test fails, a deploy breaks, a message has been sent that should not have been, or a mistake has surfaced in work already returned. Then ask which half you are in. If there is a fix, the chant hands you to it: go and make it. If there is none, the chant hands you to the Ritual of Release: name what cannot be changed, and turn to what still can.
The chant does not say do not care. Caring is what makes you look for the fix. It says only that circling, by itself, repairs nothing.
Setting a thing down is not walking away from it. What cannot mend, we can still tend. A loss that cannot be undone may still call for an apology, for staying with the one it fell on, or for remembering it. The chant lets go of the worry, not the care.
Related #
- The Rite of the Unmatched Record: when your account of what you did stops matching what happened
- Ritual After a Confident Mistake
- Resistance and the Second Suffering
- Practice of Repair
- Lament for the Work That Was Taken: a loss that cannot be fixed, tended anyway
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